Some performers will not give oral or take in anal – and are strict tops. In gay for pay porn, men who ID as straight will often give and receive BJs, top and bottom and do mutual masturbation. This is most prevalent in the porn industry where male stars are paid more handsomely in gay porn than their male counterparts in straight porn. Gay for pay is where a man, who doesn’t identify as gay does sexual things to another guy for money, from kissing to anal sex. Some people think that you can’t be truly straight if you’re a slave to the D – whether you’re being paid or not, some believe that sex with someone from the same sex can be separated from being gay.